How to Remove Negative Influences and Find Unlimited Success

By Ray Drake

It would be nice to believe that everyone around you wants you to succeed. Unfortunately this is not the case. Whether it is becoming financially successful or dating attractive women often your friends, family and co-workers are your worst enemies. Understanding what motivates people to try and stop you from reaching your potential and what you can do to ignore it, is vital if you are going to live the kind of life that you dream about.

Overcoming what your friends will think is one of the hardest parts of picking up women. There is a learning curve to approaching woman, which means at first you may face rejection. When a woman rejects you, the most common response among your male friends will be to jeer and reinforce the negative emotions that you are experiencing. And if you share your ambitions to meet and attract beautiful women they will often laugh at you. If you want to improve your dating game then you need to be able to work past the initial rejections but that can be very difficult with friends who fail to encourage you.

This is why you may need to find new friends that will match the lifestyle that you want to achieve. In the world of pickup these guys are known as your "wing men". They support and help you to pick up women, rather than trying to undermine your game. When you have a fully supportive wing man backing you up, seduction and dating is not only easier it is also more fun.

Dating is not the only area where you may need to make changes with the people that you spend time with. Personal development guru Jim Rohn once stated that "you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with". If you want to achieve a certain level of financial success then you need to spend more time with people who have already reached that level. Even family members, who may want the best for you, will often subconsciously seek to undermine your efforts.

Often they are afraid that if you succeed that you will no longer need them. Your success reinforces that they haven't achieved what they wanted with their lives. Also they may lack the information to know what it is the best course of action for you to achieve your goals. They may believe that they are giving you the best advice by telling you to be cautious or to take the safe path. However if they haven't achieved the goals that you aspire to, then they are obviously not the right person to ask for advice.

Ignoring your friends and families negative talk can be difficult. Some people are simply so toxic that you will need to make a choice. You may find that you need to make changes to your life, including letting negative influences go. At the same time as you are letting past sources of negativity behind remember that it is just as important to move towards positive influences. Find people that are also ambitious and want to achieve more from their lives.

When you remove negativity from your life, it is like cutting away a weight from around your legs. Whether you want to be more successful with women, build a great body or achieve financial independence, removing this negative talk is key.